Are you ready to take back your power?
Hey Surgeons!
You’ve mastered the skills to operate. Now it’s time to bring all of you back into the room — the human who needs impact, joy, growth, and connection — without sacrificing your whole self for the role of ‘surgeon.
If you want a surgical career that honors your values and the life you actually want, you’re in the right place. You don’t have to keep running on fumes, proving yourself, or shrinking your life down to fit the job.
What you need is a way to clear the noise and remember why you chose this work in the first place. You need to learn how to step into your power, not just when you’re holding a scalpel but when you’re in situations that are difficult– with patients, team, family, insurance companies and the medical community.
I’ve been in your shoes — the pressure, the fatigue, the sense that one mistake could cost everything. I know how to help you step back into your purpose, your energy, and the impact only you can make.
Here you’ll find coaching, workshops, and community built for surgeons — spaces where you can practice being both surgeon and human, so your career supports not only your patients but also your life.
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Does it ever feel like the system is working against you?
Insufferable insurers.
A tyrant of a boss.
Turnover times that make no sense.
It’s easy to start believing you’re the problem.
But hear this: You deserve to be okay. No matter what’s happening around you.
Let me show you how in 3 simple steps.
Our profession can feel like we’re running on a treadmill…juggling bombs. It’s as if we are one mistake away from losing it all, and it’s scary.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
You are not an emotionless robot whose job is to execute perfectly.
You are a human being with a high-stakes job.
And even in the face of mistakes, complications, or less-than-ideal outcomes, you can still care for both your patients and yourself.
You can perform well even on the days when you’re not showing up as the highest version of yourself.
You can lead, decide, and act, even when it’s messy.
You have more control than you think.
EMPOWERED SURGEONSThe Conversations We’re Having Inside The Empowered Surgeons Group
Why is the Profession Still Treating Burnout Like a Personal Failure Instead of a Systemic Issue?
Surgeons are conditioned to push through exhaustion, but at what cost? Burnout isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a signal that the system is broken. What if we stopped normalizing suffering, learned skills for reducing suffering, and started advocating for structural change for ourselves and our patients?
The Myth of the Invincible Surgeon: Who Does It Actually Serve?
We are taught to suppress emotions, power through fatigue, and never show doubt. But what happens when the expectation of invincibility turns into isolation? What if strength looked like asking for help, prioritizing rest, and operating from a place of wholeness instead of depletion? This can be your reality.
Complications Aren’t Just Clinical—They’re Emotional. So Why Aren’t We Talking About It?
Surgical complications don’t just happen to patients; they happen to us, too. The weight of unexpected outcomes can be heavy, yet we’re expected to move on as if we’re unaffected. What if we created space to process these moments instead of burying them? You can change your relationship to complications, difficult patients and thorny professional issues.
Mastering the Unknown: The Most Important Skill We Were Never Taught
Surgery is uncertainty. Every procedure holds the potential for the unexpected. Yet, we’re trained to believe that mastery means control rather than adaptability. What if the best surgeons weren’t the ones who knew everything but the ones who knew how to navigate the unknown?
What Are We So Afraid Of? (And What Is It Costing Us?)
We fear making mistakes. We fear judgment from colleagues. We fear losing the identity we’ve built our entire lives around. But what if these fears are keeping us from evolving into the surgeons—and people—we’re meant to become?
Healing Medicine Starts with Healing Ourselves
If we want to change the culture of medicine, we have to start from within. How can we expect to provide care when we refuse to receive it? How do we create a system that values not just patient outcomes, but also surgeon well-being?
WHY I LEFT MY SUCCESSFUL SURGICAL CAREER TO FOUND THE EMPOWERED SURGEON GROUP.
I spent over a decade grinding as an ENT surgeon, running full speed on the hedonic treadmill, believing that’s just what it meant to be a doctor.
But in 2021, the way I kept pushing down my fear and muscling through every day finally caught up with me. I started having panic attacks at work. Cases that used to feel routine suddenly terrified me because I knew they could trigger another wave of panic.
It was terrifying. And it forced me to see something I had been ignoring: medical training had taught me how to operate, but not how to handle my mind, my emotions, or my humanity.
Through coaching, I learned the skills I should have had all along. Skills that didn’t just make me a better doctor — they made me a better human. I found clarity, confidence, and a sense of control I hadn’t felt in years.
That’s why I became a coach. Not to walk away from medicine, but to help heal it — starting with the people who give so much of themselves to it.
Today, I help surgeons like you reclaim the ease, clarity, and confidence you deserve, so you can keep doing the work you love without losing yourself in the process.
Hi, I’m Dr. Mel Thacker
ENT surgeon, professional certified coach, podcaster, and TEDx speaker.
If you’re questioning your life choices, you’re not alone, and you’re absolutely in the right place.
You are the asset, surgeon.
When you are well-resourced, everyone benefits: your patients, your team, and your family.
Start by tuning into the Surgeons with Purpose Podcast, a candid, unfiltered conversation about the real issues surgeons face: imposter syndrome, anxiety, toxic martyrdom culture, mistakes, shame, moral injury, and more.
And if you’re a surgeon who needs support, click the link to schedule a call. This work can change everything, and it starts with a single conversation
Watch my TEDx talk here!